When you visit Thailand, you may wonder why the rest of the world is not as accepting of the gay community as the Thai people are. During your gay vacations to Thailand, you will find that most people are Buddhist, and their sexuality comes without guilt. Many Thai people do not distinguish between gay and straight with a label, and whether you choose to love the same sex or the opposite sex is really no concern in Thailand.
Asian men will be friendly, as they very much want to meet the western man. They know a bit of English, so that they can communicate with you. And it may extend past the hotel room. You will find gay friends and nightclubs readily available to welcome you.
And if you are an aging gay, of either sex, you will be happy to know that the Thai people are not obsessed with you. Middle aged gays and older will find companionship easily. And you can find out about the local gay clubs just by asking around.
Many gay establishments were commercial, such as bars, saunas, and go-go clubs, until recently. Now the bigger cities have non-commercial discos, coffee houses, and bars. And for the truly enjoyable gay experience, visit a local go-go boy bar.
Although the gay community is obvious, kissing and hugging in public is looked down upon. A public show of affection in any way is inappropriate to the Thai people, and it is the same for gays as it is for straight people. If you do see two Thai men arm in arm, they are just friends and are not displaying any other type of affection.
Modesty is also an important trait of the Thai people. They will even cover themselves while changing clothing. This may even extend to the hotel room. It is best to talk about your special interests beforehand.
A lot of bars and night spots have drag shows that star what the Thai people call ladyboys. They are very popular, but usually cater to a straight crowd. In bars where you might find a man to take home for the night, this is a relatively safe practice, as the bars know whom they are hiring.
There are some additional cultural differences you should be aware of. For instance, you are expected to pay for everything. There is no such thing as going dutch. As the western man, you are considered the social superior, as strange as that may sound. Frequent compliments on your part are good. Dressing well, with pressed, long pants, and a dress shirt is respectable and appreciated. And be ready to have your cheeks sniffed, as this is a sign of affection. Sharing clothing, and even your tooth brush could happen, so do not sweat it. Be generous. And you will have the time of your life on your gay travel to Thailand.
Howie Holben gay holidays to Thailand tips. He is the owner of Spirit Journeys, a gay travel outfit. Spirit Journeys advances spiritual gay tours all over the planet.
